A few years ago when my friend Kerry moved into her new apartment, I was admiring the new furniture and items in her place. When I asked where she got them, she would often reply:
“Buy Nothing, baby.”
Thus, my introduction to the community movement.
If you’re not familiar with the Buy Nothing Project and Buy Nothing Facebook Groups, allow me to give a brief description of its mission and rules. From their website:
The BUY NOTHING PROJECT is an international network of local gift economy Buy Nothing groups. Buy Nothing offers people a away to give and receive, share, lend, and express gratitude through a worldwide network of gift economies in which the true wealth is the web of connections formed between people who are real-life neighbors. We believe that communities are more resilient, sustainable, equitable, and joyful when they have functional gift economies.
In short, you can receive (or give) free items people are parting with in your neighborhood. This can range from anything to books, furniture, make-up, kitchen items, etc. There are certain rules to abide by, such as being a part of only one Buy Nothing group in your specific neighborhood. More of those rules can be found here.
Most of the minor inconveniences in my life as of recent have been solved by a Buy Nothing group.
There’s not much goodness left on Facebook left (save for parents commenting on posts of hypothetical situations and what they would do in them), but Buy Nothing Groups remain a haven of sustainability, community engagement, and neighborly love.
My friend/old roommate Ellie was a most generous giver the two times we’ve moved together, as she gave away anything from pots, pans, spices, cleaning supplies and much more. Just last week, I gave away several items of gently worn clothing, and prior to that several moving boxes.
During my time in Philly of living in three different neighborhood, I’ve been a part of two Buy Nothing groups. But only recently have I really taken advantage of all Buy Nothing Groups have to offer. Buy Nothing groups have allowed me to make my apartment a home while also saving money.
A few items I’ve secured from Buy Nothing Groups include:
A desk
A TV stand
Incense
Aloe vera plants
One anecdote that comes to mind that I particularly love:
Someone had recently posted in the group I’m in, “Does anyone want a million mulberries?” as hundreds upon hundreds of the berries had rained down from their tree. I assumed they were joking, but I was sorely mistaken. It wasn’t long until people were clamoring to get their hands on mulberries and pick-ups were being arranged. A few days later after the berries had been distributed, folks began posting their culinary creations. The gift that keeps on giving.
As with many things that begin with good intentions, there are some issues that arose along the way. There have been instances of leaders in certain groups denying access to those who may be experiencing homelessness, and other issues. I do appreciate their transparency on these issues, which can be found here.
Overall, Buy Nothing has reinforced my faith in humanity and the kindness that can be found in strangers. To find your neighborhood’s Buy Nothing Group, Facebook search “Buy Nothing” and your neighborhood, or use their website tool here. Or if your neighborhood doesn’t have one, perhaps you’ll be the one to start one.
There’s a chance in the next month or so that I’ll begin dog fostering, and I’m sure I’ll be putting out an “ISO” (in search of) gently used dog items.
Love ya Buy Nothing!